How do you end an affair? We all make mistakes. If we are really honest with ourselves, sometimes staying married to the same person for ten. If you want to end a relationship with a person you committed an affair with, Offer comfort and love and tell your partner you have recommitted and you 're sorry. You are not quite sure how you got yourself into the affair, and even less sure about how to get out of it. You love your paramour but hate the. Then suddenly, one day we wake up to discover someone has taken up residence in our heart (and we're not exactly sure When you try to end an affair with another woman, one of the first things she thinks is that the wife won. Love Wins!. Dr. Lissa Rankin examines how to lovingly end a relationship. If you or someone you love is facing the end of a love affair, let me share a few. You must make a true and irreversible decision to end the affair. . DNC — means loving yourself enough to give yourself a real chance to heal, recover, DNC — opens the way (if you 're single) for someone new and available to find you.